Being yourself
The most important thing to remember when you are standing in front of a jury may be: to just be yourself. It is easy to try to emulate someone else who has been successful – and to be sure we are all the sum total of our experiences, which includes those from whom we have learned over the years – but if we are trying to be that other person then we are trying to be something that we are not.
It’s strange that we have to be reminded to just be ourselves. “Just be yourself” is a maxim for life in general that is unfortunately counter-intuitive for a lawyer in the courtroom. Jurors are people, like the people that we interact with every day in our lives, and when we are trying to be anything other than ourselves, they sense that we are not genuine and that we are not being real.
It may be that the most important thing in any trial is our credibility – the jury is looking for a guide through a difficult and confusing process in order to find their way to their verdict, whatever it may be. And more often than not they will side with and follow the person in the arena who they feel that they can trust, the person who they feel is telling them the truth.
We lose that trust, whether it is with jurors, with a client, or with the guy that I met on the street today, when we try to be anything other than who we are.
